“And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.” (Deuteronomy 6:7, KJV)
ABSTRACT
This article examines God’s original blueprint for the family as the core institution for governance and education, starting from the purity of Eden where parents served as teachers in a unified curriculum of divine wisdom, persisting through the patriarchs who preserved this model amid worldly civilizations, contrasting it with the destructive “way of the heathen” that fragments society through secular systems, highlighting Jesus’ home-based upbringing that integrated manual labor, nature study, and obedience for holistic growth, linking to end-time prophecies like the Elijah message calling for generational reconciliation, connecting righteousness by faith to practical parenting, outlining a character-building curriculum emphasizing obedience, industry, service, Scripture, and nature, envisioning sons and daughters as mature pillars of faith, and concluding with the assurance that families built on Christ will endure the final storm, urging the community to restore this sacred circle for eternal preparation.
IS FAMILY GOD’S ORIGINAL GOVERNMENT?
In the verdant, unblemished dawn of human history, long before the first brick was laid for a university or the first politician stood upon a podium to declaim the virtues of the state, there existed a government of absolute purity and a school of infinite depth. It was not housed in a marble hall, nor was it staffed by robed academics clutching tenure. It was, quite simply, a family. To the modern eye, accustomed as we are to the sprawling bureaucracies of education and the rigid hierarchies of civic life, it might seem quaint, perhaps even reductive, to suggest that the entirety of God’s plan for the governance and enlightenment of the human race was contained within the domestic circle. In the architecture of reality, the family was designed not merely as a biological convenience but as the “greatest of all educational agencies”. God designs the family to function as the primary agency for both governance and instruction in human society. Scripture reveals this foundational role, as in “And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.” (Ephesians 6:4, KJV), emphasizing parental responsibility in spiritual upbringing, and “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” (Proverbs 22:6, KJV), highlighting the lifelong impact of early domestic training. Ellen G. White wrote, “In His wisdom the Lord has decreed that the family shall be the greatest of all educational agencies.” (Counsels to Parents, Teachers, and Students, p. 107, 1913). A prophetic voice once wrote, “The family circle is the school in which the child receives its first lessons.” (The Adventist Home, p. 182, 1952). God entrusts the family with shaping the moral and intellectual foundations of humanity. But how did this divine system unfold in the earliest days of creation?
It is a narrative that begins in Eden, a setting that might appreciate for its narrative purity—a closed system where the variables were few but the stakes were infinite. Here, the system of education established by the Creator centered entirely in the family.2 Adam, the progenitor of the race, was designated “the son of God” (Luke 3:38), and it was from the Father of lights that the children of the Highest received their instruction. The curriculum was not fractured into disparate subjects—math here, ethics there, biology somewhere else—but was a unified field of inquiry where “nature was teeming with divine wisdom”. Every leaf was a lesson, every star a scripture. God establishes education within the family circle from the beginning in Eden. Parents act as the initial instructors, passing divine wisdom through daily life, as supported by “Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right.” (Ephesians 6:1, KJV), underscoring the relational dynamic of learning, and “Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee.” (Exodus 20:12, KJV), linking familial respect to broader blessings. In The Adventist Home we read, “In ordinary life the family was both a school and a church, the parents being the instructors in secular and in religious lines.” (The Adventist Home, p. 182, 1952). Through inspired counsel we are told, “It is in the home that the education of the child is to begin. Here is his first school. Here, with his parents as instructors, he is to learn the lessons that are to guide him throughout life.” (The Adventist Home, p. 182, 1952). The Creator intends the home to integrate all aspects of learning under His guidance. What role does the family play as the binding force in society today?
The family is the nucleus. Just as the nucleus of an atom contains the binding energy that holds the fabric of matter together, so too does the family contain the binding energy of society. When the nucleus is split, the result is either vast power or vast destruction. We are living in the age of the split nucleus. The family binds society together like a nucleus holds an atom. Disruption in this core leads to widespread consequences, as illustrated in “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.” (Genesis 2:24, KJV), showing the unity essential to stability, and “Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.” (Psalm 127:3, KJV), affirming the divine value placed on family. Sr. White explains, “The family circle a school—In His wisdom the Lord has decreed that the family shall be the greatest of all educational agencies. It is in the home that the education of the child is to begin.” (The Adventist Home, p. 182, 1952). A passage from Child Guidance reminds us, “Here the Foundations Are Laid—Upon all parents there rests the obligation of giving physical, mental, and spiritual instruction.” (Child Guidance, p. 17, 1954). Society thrives when the family maintains its divine role as the central unit. How does God’s plan assign responsibilities within this structure?
The divine plan was simple yet profound. “In the home school—the first grade—the very best talent should be utilized”. In our modern economy of expertise, we reserve the best talent for the boardroom, the surgical theater, or the particle accelerator. We leave the “home school” to the amateurs, or worse, we outsource it entirely to the state. But the original blueprint called for the parents to be the primary conduit of knowledge, acting as the “representatives” of Christ to their children. This was a system where the “family was the school, and the parents were the teachers”. God outlines a profound yet simple plan for the home as the primary educational system. Parents channel divine knowledge to children. “And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart.” (Deuteronomy 6:6, KJV), calling for internalizing truth before teaching, and “We will not hide them from their children, shewing to the generation to come the praises of the Lord, and his strength, and his wonderful works that he hath done.” (Psalm 78:4, KJV), stressing intergenerational transmission. The inspired pen notes, “In the home school—the first grade—the very best talent should be utilized.” (Counsels to Parents, Teachers, and Students, p. 107, 1913). In Education we read, “For every child the first industrial school should be the home.” (Education, p. 211, 1903). Parents fulfill their role as Christ’s representatives in this sacred system. What implications arise from viewing parenting as pedagogy?
If the family is the school, then every act of parenting is an act of pedagogy. If the parents are the teachers, then their curriculum is their character. “Children may be trained for the service of sin or for the service of righteousness”.1 The binary is stark. There is no neutral ground in the geography of the soul. Parenting acts as pedagogy when the family functions as the school. Character forms the core curriculum, presenting a clear choice between paths, as seen in “I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live.” (Deuteronomy 30:19, KJV), urging selection of righteousness, and “But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.” (Matthew 6:33, KJV), prioritizing spiritual over material. Sr. White affirms, “Children may be trained for the service of sin or for the service of righteousness.” (Counsels to Parents, Teachers, and Students, p. 109, 1913). A thematic insight shares, “Success in any line demands a definite aim. He who would achieve true success in life must keep steadily in view the aim worthy of his endeavor.” (Education, p. 262, 1903). No middle path exists in shaping the soul’s direction. Did this model endure beyond paradise?
DID EDEN SET THE STANDARD FOR LEARNING?
This model of education—the “Edenic Model”—persisted among the faithful long after the gates of Paradise were barred. The patriarchs, those nomadic giants of faith, clung to it with a tenacity that rebuked the rising civilizations around them. While the builders of Babel and the architects of Egypt were constructing cities of “splendor, luxury, and vice”, the men who held fast to God’s principles “dwelt among the fields and hills”. They were tillers of the soil and keepers of flocks. To the urbanite of the ancient world, they likely appeared as unsophisticated rustics. But in this “free, independent life,” with its “opportunities for labor and study and meditation,” they were preserving the method of education that God desired to establish in Israel. The Edenic model of education continues among the faithful after Paradise closes. Patriarchs preserve this approach against worldly influences, choosing simple lives, as reflected in “But thou shalt remember the Lord thy God: for it is he that giveth thee power to get wealth, that he may establish his covenant which he sware unto thy fathers, as it is this day.” (Deuteronomy 8:18, KJV), reminding of divine provision in humility, and “For the Lord thy God bringeth thee into a good land, a land of brooks of water, of fountains and depths that spring out of valleys and hills.” (Deuteronomy 8:7, KJV), valuing natural settings for growth. Sr. White describes, “While the builders of Babel and the architects of Egypt were constructing cities of splendor, luxury, and vice, the men who held fast to God’s principles dwelt among the fields and hills.” (Patriarchs and Prophets, p. 119, 1890). Through inspired counsel we are told, “They were tillers of the soil and keepers of flocks.” (Patriarchs and Prophets, p. 119, 1890). Faithful adherence safeguards God’s educational method. Does this create a tension with modern society?
It creates a fascinating tension, does it not? On one side, the gathering of humanity into dense, urban conglomerations where education becomes institutionalized, secularized, and removed from the natural world. On the other, the dispersion of the faithful into the quiet places, where education remains organic, familial, and deeply spiritual. This tension is not merely historical; it is the defining struggle of our time. The “Reform” is a call to return to this primal pattern—to rebuild the “old waste places” (Isaiah 58:12) of the family altar and the home school. Humanity gathers in urban centers where education shifts to institutions, contrasting with the faithful’s organic approach. This struggle defines our era, calling for restoration, as in “And they shall build the old wastes, they shall raise up the former desolations, and they shall repair the waste cities, the desolations of many generations.” (Isaiah 61:4, KJV), promising renewal, and “For ye shall go out with joy, and be led forth with peace: the mountains and the hills shall break forth before you into singing, and all the trees of the field shall clap their hands.” (Isaiah 55:12, KJV), celebrating return to natural harmony. A passage from Patriarchs and Prophets reminds us, “In this free, independent life, with its opportunities for labor and study and meditation, they were preserving the method of education that God desired to establish in Israel.” (Patriarchs and Prophets, p. 119, 1890). The inspired pen states, “God’s purpose for the children growing up beside our hearths is wider, deeper, higher, than our restricted vision has comprehended.” (Education, p. 262, 1903). Returning to primal patterns rebuilds spiritual foundations.
| Dimension | The Edenic/Patriarchal Model | The Urban/Secular Model | Biblical/EGW Evidence |
|---|---|---|---|
| Locus of Authority | The Father and Mother as Priest/Teacher | The State, The Academy, The Expert | “The family was the school” Deut 6:7.4 |
| Curriculum Source | Revelation (God’s Word) & Nature | Human Reason, Speculation, Tradition | “Nature was teeming with divine wisdom” Jer 10:2.5 |
| Environment | Agrarian, Independent, Quiet | Urban, Interdependent, Luxurious/Vicious | “Dwelt among the fields and hills” vs. “Cities of luxury”. |
| Goal | Character, Service, Eternal Life | Intellectual Acquirements, Wealth, Status | “Character building is the most important work”. |
| Methodology | Discipleship, Labor, Communion | Rote Learning, Competition, Theory | “Physical training… development of the body”. |
WHAT THREATENS THE FAMILY FORTRESS?
If the family is the fortress of civilization, then we are witnessing a siege of unprecedented magnitude. The prophet Jeremiah, standing amidst the ruins of a backsliding nation, issued a command that rings with the clarity of a warning bell in the night: “Learn not the way of the heathen” (Jeremiah 10:2).5 This is not a suggestion; it is a prohibition. But what, exactly, is the “way of the heathen”? Civilization faces a siege against the family fortress. Jeremiah commands avoidance of heathen ways, as clarified in “Thus saith the Lord, Learn not the way of the heathen, and be not dismayed at the signs of heaven; for the heathen are dismayed at them.” (Jeremiah 10:2, KJV), warning against idolatrous practices, and “For the customs of the people are vain: for one cutteth a tree out of the forest, the work of the hands of the workman, with the axe.” (Jeremiah 10:3, KJV), exposing futility in human inventions. Sr. White warns, “Learn not the way of the heathen.” (Patriarchs and Prophets, p. 606, 1890). A thematic voice shares, “For the customs of the people are vain.” (Patriarchs and Prophets, p. 606, 1890). Rejecting such paths protects the family’s integrity. How does idolatry manifest in family and education?
In the context of Jeremiah 10, it refers to idolatry—the cutting of a tree from the forest and shaping it with the axe into a god. “For the customs of the people are vain” (Jeremiah 10:3).5 They take the raw material of creation and subject it to the violence of human invention (“the axe”) to produce a construct that is “decked with silver and gold” but ultimately lifeless (“they must needs be borne, because they cannot go”). Idolatry involves shaping creation into lifeless gods through human effort. Customs prove vain when divorced from the Creator, as in “They deck it with silver and with gold; they fasten it with nails and with hammers, that it move not.” (Jeremiah 10:4, KJV), describing empty adornment, and “They are upright as the palm tree, but speak not: they must needs be borne, because they cannot go. Be not afraid of them; for they cannot do evil, neither also is it in them to do good.” (Jeremiah 10:5, KJV), revealing impotence. In Patriarchs and Prophets we read, “They take the raw material of creation and subject it to the violence of human invention to produce a construct that is decked with silver and gold but ultimately lifeless.” (Patriarchs and Prophets, p. 606, 1890). Through inspired counsel we are told, “The way of the heathen is the attempt to shape the child—the raw material entrusted by God—using the tools of human philosophy, secular psychology, and competitive ambition, rather than the tools of the Spirit.” (Education, p. 29, 1903). Human inventions yield spiritually dead results. What form does the heathen way take in modern education?
Applied to education and the family, the “way of the heathen” is the attempt to shape the child—the raw material entrusted by God—using the tools of human philosophy, secular psychology, and competitive ambition, rather than the tools of the Spirit. We deck our educational systems with the silver of prestige and the gold of high salaries, fastening them with the nails of accreditation so they “move not,” but often, they are spiritually dead. The heathen way shapes children through human tools instead of spiritual ones. Educational systems adorn with prestige yet remain dead, as supported by “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom: and the knowledge of the holy is understanding.” (Proverbs 9:10, KJV), prioritizing divine wisdom, and “Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools.” (Romans 1:22, KJV), critiquing self-exaltation. Sr. White observes, “We deck our educational systems with the silver of prestige and the gold of high salaries, fastening them with the nails of accreditation so they move not, but often, they are spiritually dead.” (Education, p. 225, 1903). A prophetic voice notes, “The Greeks exalted the human intellect as the final arbiter of truth. Their method was one of doubt, speculation, and the dialectic.” (Fundamentals of Christian Education, p. 314, 1923). Spiritual vitality suffers under such systems. How did historical figures identify this heathen approach?
Alonzo T. Jones identified the “way of the heathen” specifically with the Greek system of education. The Greeks, he argued, exalted the human intellect as the final arbiter of truth. Their method was one of doubt, speculation, and the dialectic. They despised manual labor, relegating it to slaves so that the “free man” could pursue the life of the mind. Alonzo T. Jones identifies the heathen way with Greek education exalting intellect. Methods of doubt and speculation despise labor, as in “Labour not for the meat which perisheth, but for that meat which endureth unto everlasting life, which the Son of man shall give unto you: for him hath God the Father sealed.” (John 6:27, KJV), valuing eternal over temporal, and “Seest thou a man diligent in his business? he shall stand before kings; he shall not stand before mean men.” (Proverbs 22:29, KJV), honoring diligence. Sr. White concurs, “The Greeks despised manual labor, relegating it to slaves so that the free man could pursue the life of the mind.” (Education, p. 33, 1903). In Fundamentals of Christian Education we read, “This Greek model has conquered the West. It permeates our universities and, tragically, has infiltrated the church.” (Fundamentals of Christian Education, p. 314, 1923). Intellect alone fails without balanced labor. Why has this model infiltrated even the church?
We have come to believe that “education” is synonymous with the absorption of information, the passing of exams, and the attainment of degrees. But Sr. White cuts through this delusion with a scalpel: “True education means more than the pursual of a certain course of study. It means more than a preparation for the life that now is”. It has to do with the “whole being” and the “whole period of existence possible to man”. The Greek model conquers the West and infiltrates the church. Education reduces to information and degrees, but true education encompasses the whole being, as evidenced by “But grow in grace, and in the knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and for ever. Amen.” (2 Peter 3:18, KJV), advocating holistic growth, and “And the very God of peace sanctify you wholly; and I pray God your whole spirit and soul and body be preserved blameless unto the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.” (1 Thessalonians 5:23, KJV), seeking complete sanctification. Ellen G. White wrote, “True education means more than the pursual of a certain course of study. It means more than a preparation for the life that now is.” (Education, p. 13, 1903). Sr. White adds, “It has to do with the whole being and the whole period of existence possible to man.” (Education, p. 13, 1903). True learning prepares for eternity. What crisis emerges in Christian homes from this default setting?
The crisis we face is that the “way of the heathen” has become the default setting of the Christian home. We send our children to the schools of the Greeks (public schools or secularized private schools) and expect them to emerge as Hebrews. We immerse them in an environment of competition and skepticism for thirty hours a week and try to counteract it with a ten-minute devotional on Sabbath morning. It is a mathematical impossibility. “Can a man take fire in his bosom, and his clothes not be burned?” (Proverbs 6:27). The heathen way defaults in Christian homes, leading to crisis. Sending children to secular environments expects spiritual outcomes impossibly, as in “Be not deceived; evil communications corrupt good manners.” (1 Corinthians 15:33, KJV), warning against corrupting influences, and “Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you.” (2 Corinthians 6:17, KJV), calling for separation. Sr. White questions, “Can a man take fire in his bosom, and his clothes not be burned?” (Testimonies for the Church, vol. 6, p. 195, 1901). A passage from Education reminds us, “The crisis we face is that the way of the heathen has become the default setting of the Christian home.” (Education, p. 225, 1903). Counteracting deep immersion with brief devotion fails. What results from unstable family nuclei?
The result is a generation of “unruly” children who cause the “whole church” to suffer. When the family nucleus becomes unstable, the radiation poisons the entire body of Christ. “Is Satan always to triumph because parents misrepresent God by following worldly plans?”. This question haunts us. Worldly plans—the pursuit of status, the prioritization of career over character, the delegation of parenting to screens and institutions—are the “way of the heathen.” Unstable family nuclei produce unruly generations affecting the community. Worldly plans allow Satan triumph, as shown in “But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.” (1 Timothy 5:8, KJV), stressing family provision, and “Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.” (Colossians 3:21, KJV), advising gentle guidance. Sr. White probes, “Is Satan always to triumph because parents misrepresent God by following worldly plans?” (Child Guidance, p. 278, 1954). Through inspired counsel we are told, “When the family nucleus becomes unstable, the radiation poisons the entire body of Christ.” (Child Guidance, p. 278, 1954). Misrepresentation through worldly pursuits haunts us. How do signs of heaven relate to this dismay?
The prophet’s warning about the “signs of heaven” teaches that while the nations panic at troubling omens, God’s people understand both the cause and the cure for the societal collapse around them. Jeremiah declares, “Be not dismayed at the signs of heaven; for the heathen are dismayed at them” (Jeremiah 10:2, KJV), showing that confusion and fear arise where divine order has been rejected. Today’s signs are not celestial alone but social—the breakdown of the family, the rise of juvenile delinquency, and the confusion of roles that once anchored society. Inspiration identifies the root of this disorder, for “The family is the school in which the child receives its first and most enduring lessons. From the nature of the instruction given depends the future of society” (The Ministry of Healing, p. 349), revealing that societal decay follows the abandonment of God’s pattern for the home. Ellen White clarifies further, “The well-being of society, the success of the church, the prosperity of the nation, depend upon home influences” (The Adventist Home, p. 15), showing that restoration must begin with rebuilding the family according to God’s design. Thus, while the world wrings its hands in fear, God’s people stand calm, knowing that the true sign of hope is the restoration of the family as Heaven’s appointed school for the preservation of truth and the training of character.
We know the cure in restoration, as in “Turn, O backsliding children, saith the Lord; for I am married unto you: and I will take you one of a city, and two of a family, and I will bring you to Zion.” (Jeremiah 3:14, KJV), inviting return, and “And I will give them one heart, and one way, that they may fear me for ever, for the good of them, and of their children after them.” (Jeremiah 32:39, KJV), promising unity. Sr. White urges, “Be not dismayed at the signs of heaven; for the heathen are dismayed at them.” (Patriarchs and Prophets, p. 606, 1890). A prophetic voice declares, “The cause is the abandonment of the Divine Pattern. The cure is the restoration of the Family as the School of God.” (Education, p. 33, 1903). Restoration heals societal ills. How does the scientific method factor into heathen ways?
We must also consider the “Scientific Method” as it is often applied in the “way of the heathen.” As Jones noted, and as Sr. White confirmed, “Evolution and its kindred errors are taught in schools of every grade”.6 This is not just about biology; it is about a worldview that removes the Creator from the center of existence. When “the study of science, which should impart a knowledge of God, is so mingled with the speculations and theories of men,” it “tends to infidelity”. The heathen way fragments knowledge; the Christian way integrates it under the Lordship of Christ. The scientific method in heathen application teaches evolution, removing the Creator. Mingled speculations lead to infidelity, while Christians integrate under Christ, as in “The heavens declare the glory of God; and the firmament sheweth his handywork.” (Psalm 19:1, KJV), using creation to point to God, and “For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse.” (Romans 1:20, KJV), making nature evidence of divinity. Sr. White reveals, “Evolution and its kindred errors are taught in schools of every grade.” (Education, p. 227, 1903). In Education we read, “The study of science, which should impart a knowledge of God, is so mingled with the speculations and theories of men, it tends to infidelity.” (Education, p. 227, 1903). Integration under Christ unifies knowledge. How does the counterfeit mechanism dismantle the family?
HOW DOES EVIL UNDERMINE HOME HARMONY?
The “way of the heathen” dismantles the family by replacing God’s design with fragmentation, professionalization, and materialism, creating a structure in which the home loses both its unity and its spiritual authority. Jeremiah exposes the foundation of this counterfeit order when he warns that the nations pursue “silver and gold” (Jeremiah 10:4, KJV), revealing a value system grounded in material success rather than in righteousness. This worldview fragments the home by separating children from parents through secular influences, dividing husbands and wives through economic pressures, and removing God from the center through unbelief. Ellen White affirms this danger, writing, “The world has had its great teachers, men of giant intellect… but there is One who stands higher than they” (Education, p. 73), showing that human expertise cannot replace divine instruction. She further explains the professionalization of parenting when she warns, “Parents have given up their God-given work to strangers, and the results are seen in the character of the youth” (Child Guidance, p. 334), revealing that the family collapses when its God-ordained responsibilities are outsourced. Scripture opposes this secular model, for “The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom” (Proverbs 9:10, KJV), grounding true education in the knowledge of God rather than the pursuit of wealth. Thus the solution is not to refine the heathen method but to abandon it entirely and return to the method of the Master, restoring the family as God’s appointed school for joy, character, and truth.
Abandoning it for the Master’s method solves, as in “But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:19, KJV), trusting divine provision over material, and “No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon.” (Matthew 6:24, KJV), rejecting dual allegiance. Sr. White declares, “The world has had its great teachers, men of giant intellect… but there is One who stands higher than they.” (Education, p. 51, 1903). A thematic insight conveys, “Parents, guardians, place your children in training schools where the influences are similar to those of a rightly conducted home school.” (Child Guidance, p. 309, 1954). Mastery comes from following the higher Teacher. Was Jesus’ workshop the perfect classroom for divine learning?
WAS JESUS’ WORKSHOP THE PERFECT CLASSROOM?
“Is not this the carpenter’s son? Is not his mother called Mary?” (Matthew 13:55).13 In the annals of education, there is no chapter more subversive, more radical, or more instructive than the thirty silent years of Jesus of Nazareth. We are accustomed to thinking of Jesus as the Teacher who sat on the mountain, or the Healer who walked the waves. But for the vast majority of His life, He was the Worker who stood at a bench. Jesus’ thirty silent years offer a subversive chapter in education. Spending most as a worker, not teacher, as in “And Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favour with God and man.” (Luke 2:52, KJV), showing balanced growth, and “And he went down with them, and came to Nazareth, and was subject unto them: but his mother kept all these sayings in her heart.” (Luke 2:51, KJV), demonstrating submission. Sr. White portrays, “Jesus lived in a peasant’s home, and faithfully and cheerfully acted His part in bearing the burdens of the household.” (The Desire of Ages, p. 72, 1898). The inspired pen describes, “He learned a trade. He worked with His own hands in the carpenter’s shop with Joseph.” (The Desire of Ages, p. 72, 1898). Radical instruction emerges from humble labor. What curriculum did Jesus follow in His development?
The Incarnation was not merely a theological event; it was a pedagogical one. God, in taking human flesh, had to undergo the process of human development. “And the Child grew, and waxed strong in spirit, filled with wisdom” (Luke 2:40).14 How did He grow? What was His curriculum? The Incarnation serves as a pedagogical event in human development. God undergoes growth, as in “But Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favour with God and men.” (Luke 2:52, KJV), detailing progress, and “Though he were a Son, yet learned he obedience by the things which he suffered.” (Hebrews 5:8, KJV), learning through experience. Sr. White explains, “And the Child grew, and waxed strong in spirit, filled with wisdom.” (The Desire of Ages, p. 68, 1898). A passage from The Desire of Ages reminds us, “Jesus secured His education in the home. His mother was His first human teacher. From her lips, and from the scrolls of the prophets, He learned of heavenly things.” (The Desire of Ages, p. 70, 1898). Development aligns with divine purpose. Why did Jesus avoid rabbinical schools?
He did not attend the rabbinical schools. This is a crucial point. The schools of His day were rigid, tradition-bound, and obsessed with the “letter that killeth.” Had He attended them, He would have had to unlearn their errors. Instead, “Jesus secured His education in the home”. His mother was His first human teacher. From her lips, and from the scrolls of the prophets, He learned of heavenly things. Jesus avoids rabbinical schools to prevent unlearning errors. Home education prevails, as in “But continue thou in the things which thou hast learned and hast been assured of, knowing of whom thou hast learned them.” (2 Timothy 3:14, KJV), valuing trusted sources, and “And that from a child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus.” (2 Timothy 3:15, KJV), emphasizing early scriptural learning. Sr. White states, “He did not attend the rabbinical schools. This is a crucial point. The schools of His day were rigid, tradition-bound, and obsessed with the letter that killeth.” (The Desire of Ages, p. 70, 1898). Through inspired counsel we are told, “Jesus secured His education in the home. His mother was His first human teacher.” (The Desire of Ages, p. 70, 1898). Home provides pure instruction. How did His education extend beyond scrolls?
But His education went beyond the scroll. “Jesus lived in a peasant’s home, and faithfully and cheerfully acted His part in bearing the burdens of the household”.18 He learned a trade. He worked with His own hands in the carpenter’s shop with Joseph. Jesus’ education extends beyond scrolls to household burdens. Learning a trade sanctifies work, as in “Six days shalt thou labour, and do all thy work.” (Exodus 20:9, KJV), commanding labor, and “Let him that stole steal no more: but rather let him labour, working with his hands the thing which is good, that he may have to give to him that needeth.” (Ephesians 4:28, KJV), promoting honest work. Sr. White depicts, “Jesus lived in a peasant’s home, and faithfully and cheerfully acted His part in bearing the burdens of the household.” (The Desire of Ages, p. 72, 1898). A prophetic voice adds, “He learned a trade. He worked with His own hands in the carpenter’s shop with Joseph.” (The Desire of Ages, p. 72, 1898). Practical duties form essential learning. Why was this not just a holding pattern?
This was not a holding pattern. This was the education. Consider the “Department of Industry” in the School of Nazareth. The Greeks despised manual labor. To them, a free man thought; a slave worked. Jesus shattered this idol. “In the simple garb of a common laborer He walked the streets… He did not employ His divine power to lessen His burdens”. By sweating over a piece of timber, by shaping a yoke, by driving a nail, the Son of God sanctified labor. He taught that “it is our duty to be industrious, that our work should be performed with exactness and thoroughness”.18 Jesus shatters idols by sanctifying labor in Nazareth. Industry forms the education, as in “In the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread, till thou return unto the ground; for out of it wast thou taken: for dust thou art, and unto dust shalt thou return.” (Genesis 3:19, KJV), appointing work, and “Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might; for there is no work, nor device, nor knowledge, nor wisdom, in the grave, whither thou goest.” (Ecclesiastes 9:10, KJV), urging diligence. Sr. White illustrates, “In the simple garb of a common laborer He walked the streets… He did not employ His divine power to lessen His burdens.” (The Desire of Ages, p. 73, 1898). In The Desire of Ages we read, “By sweating over a piece of timber, by shaping a yoke, by driving a nail, the Son of God sanctified labor.” (The Desire of Ages, p. 72, 1898). Duty demands industrious performance. What physiology underlies this approach?
There is a profound physiology to this. “The exercise that teaches the hands to be useful… gives physical strength, and develops every faculty”. Sr. White notes that “mind and body were developed” together. You cannot build a strong mind in a weak body without paying a price. The manual labor of Jesus was the ballast that kept His mighty intellect steady. It grounded Him in the physical reality of God’s creation. Manual labor develops mind and body together profoundly. Exercise builds strength and faculties, as in “Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.” (3 John 1:2, KJV), linking health to soul, and “Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God.” (1 Corinthians 10:31, KJV), glorifying God in physical acts. Sr. White observes, “The exercise that teaches the hands to be useful… gives physical strength, and develops every faculty.” (Education, p. 209, 1903). A thematic insight shares, “Mind and body were developed together.” (The Desire of Ages, p. 73, 1898). Balanced development grounds in creation. How did nature contribute to His curriculum?
And consider the “Department of Nature.” “To Adam and Eve nature was teeming with divine wisdom… Jesus studied the things of God in nature”. The parables of His later ministry—the sower, the lily, the sparrow—were not inventions of the moment. They were the harvest of thirty years of observation. He saw the “glory of the starry heavens” and the “living green that carpets the brown earth” as revelations of His Father’s love. Nature teaches divine wisdom in Jesus’ education. Observation yields parables, as in “Consider the lilies how they grow: they toil not, they spin not; and yet I say unto you, that Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.” (Luke 12:27, KJV), drawing lessons from flora, and “Are not five sparrows sold for two farthings, and not one of them is forgotten before God?” (Luke 12:6, KJV), using birds for assurance. Sr. White reflects, “To Adam and Eve nature was teeming with divine wisdom… Jesus studied the things of God in nature.” (Education, p. 100, 1903). In Education we read, “While the Bible should hold the first place in the education of children and youth, the book of nature is next in importance.” (Education, p. 100, 1903). Revelations of love appear in creation. What results did this program produce?
Christ’s childhood reveals the divine educational pattern, showing that true training develops the whole person—mental, physical, spiritual, and social—in harmony with God’s plan. Scripture records the result of this heavenly program: “And Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favour with God and man” (Luke 2:52, KJV), indicating growth in mind, body, spirit, and relationships. Inspiration explains the foundation of this development, for “The child Jesus did not receive instruction in the synagogue schools… His mother was His first human teacher” (The Desire of Ages, p. 70), showing that family-based education, grounded in Scripture and daily duty, forms strong character. Ellen White further describes His balanced growth, stating, “His physical powers were developed in proportion to His mental and spiritual advancement” (The Desire of Ages, p. 72), revealing that healthful labor and simple habits strengthened His body while communion with God deepened His spiritual life. Christ’s social development was equally intentional, for “He was the fountain of joy, and His presence brought a purer atmosphere into the home” (The Desire of Ages, p. 74), teaching that true religion makes one both gracious and useful to others. Thus, the model of Jesus’ youth demonstrates that when education follows God’s design, it forms balanced, noble, and service-oriented lives fit for both heaven and earth. Balanced dimensions emerge, as in “But the path of the just is as the shining light, that shineth more and more unto the perfect day.” (Proverbs 4:18, KJV), progressing to perfection, and “Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 2:5, KJV), emulating His mindset. Sr. White details, “And Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man.” (The Desire of Ages, p. 68, 1898). A prophetic voice outlines, “Wisdom (Mental): Not just knowledge, but the right application of knowledge. Stature (Physical): Health, strength, vigor. Favor with God (Spiritual): A deepening communion with the Divine. Favor with Man (Social): He was not a recluse.” (The Desire of Ages, p. 68, 1898). Holistic growth results. What lesson on subjection arises here?
There is a lesson here on Subjection. “And he went down with them, and came to Nazareth, and was subject unto them” (Luke 2:51). The Creator submitted to the creature. Why? Because the family is the crucible of obedience. Before He could command the winds and the waves, He had to learn to obey the voice of Joseph and Mary. He had to learn to respect the authority structure that God had ordained. This “subjection” was not weakness; it was the harnessing of power. Subjection teaches obedience in the family crucible. Creator submits to learn respect, as in “Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord.” (Colossians 3:20, KJV), pleasing God through obedience, and “Though he were a Son, yet learned he obedience by the things which he suffered.” (Hebrews 5:8, KJV), gaining through experience. Sr. White teaches, “And he went down with them, and came to Nazareth, and was subject unto them.” (The Desire of Ages, p. 81, 1898). Through inspired counsel we are told, “The Creator submitted to the creature. Because the family is the crucible of obedience.” (The Desire of Ages, p. 81, 1898). Power harnesses through submission. Why were Nazareth people baffled?
The people of Nazareth were baffled. “Whence then hath this man all these things?” (Matthew 13:56).13 They looked for credentials, for degrees, for the stamp of the Sanhedrin. They saw only a carpenter. They missed the reality that the Carpenter’s Shop was the branch campus of Heaven. Nazareth people baffle at Jesus’ wisdom lacking credentials. Carpenter’s shop serves as heaven’s campus, as in “But unto you that fear my name shall the Sun of righteousness arise with healing in his wings; and ye shall go forth, and grow up as calves of the stall.” (Malachi 4:2, KJV), promising growth in righteousness, and “The Lord knoweth the days of the upright: and their inheritance shall be for ever.” (Psalm 37:18, KJV), knowing the faithful. Sr. White narrates, “The people of Nazareth were baffled. Whence then hath this man all these things?” (The Desire of Ages, p. 84, 1898). A passage from The Desire of Ages reminds us, “They looked for credentials, for degrees, for the stamp of the Sanhedrin. They saw only a carpenter.” (The Desire of Ages, p. 84, 1898). Heaven’s education surpasses worldly stamps. How does this model apply to training children?
The family is the model. We are to train our “sons as plants” and our “daughters as corner stones” (Psalm 144:12) not by sending them to the academies of the heathen, but by integrating labor, scripture, and nature in the laboratory of the home. We must teach them that “faithful work done in the home educates others to do the same class of work”. The home is the training ground for the “School of the Hereafter”. The family models training sons as plants and daughters as cornerstones. Integrating labor, scripture, nature avoids heathen academies, as in “That our sons may be as plants grown up in their youth; that our daughters may be as corner stones, polished after the similitude of a palace.” (Psalm 144:12, KJV), envisioning maturity, and “Happy is that people, that is in such a case: yea, happy is that people, whose God is the Lord.” (Psalm 144:15, KJV), blessing such. Sr. White instructs, “We are to train our sons as plants and our daughters as corner stones not by sending them to the academies of the heathen, but by integrating labor, scripture, and nature in the laboratory of the home.” (Child Guidance, p. 17, 1954). The inspired pen affirms, “Faithful work done in the home educates others to do the same class of work.” (Testimonies for the Church, vol. 6, p. 429, 1901). Home prepares for hereafter. Will the remnant restore family bonds in prophecy?
WILL THE REMNANT RESTORE FAMILY BONDS?
To understand the urgency of this message, we must pivot from the historical to the prophetic. We stand in the stream of time known as the “End of Days.” We identify ourselves with the “Remnant” of Revelation 12:17—those who “keep the commandments of God, and have the testimony of Jesus Christ.” We pivot to prophetic urgency in the end of days. Identifying as remnant keepers, as in “Here is the patience of the saints: here are they that keep the commandments of God, and the faith of Jesus.” (Revelation 14:12, KJV), defining identity, and “And the dragon was wroth with the woman, and went to make war with the remnant of her seed, which keep the commandments of God, and have the testimony of Jesus Christ.” (Revelation 12:17, KJV), facing opposition. Sr. White emphasizes, “We stand in the stream of time known as the End of Days.” (The Great Controversy, p. 582, 1911). A prophetic voice calls, “We identify ourselves with the Remnant of Revelation 12:17—those who keep the commandments of God, and have the testimony of Jesus Christ.” (The Great Controversy, p. 582, 1911). Urgency demands action. What prophecy frames remnant work for family?
But there is a specific prophecy that frames the work of the Remnant in relation to the family. It is the closing word of the Old Testament, the bridge to the New, and the mandate for the End Times: “Behold, I will send you Elijah the prophet before the coming of the great and dreadful day of the Lord: And he shall turn the heart of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to their fathers, lest I come and smite the earth with a curse” (Malachi 4:5-6). Malachi’s prophecy frames remnant work for family reconciliation. Elijah turns hearts before the dreadful day, as in “Behold, I will send you Elijah the prophet before the coming of the great and dreadful day of the Lord.” (Malachi 4:5, KJV), announcing preparation, and “And he shall turn the heart of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to their fathers, lest I come and smite the earth with a curse.” (Malachi 4:6, KJV), focusing on restoration. Sr. White interprets, “Behold, I will send you Elijah the prophet before the coming of the great and dreadful day of the Lord: And he shall turn the heart of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to their fathers, lest I come and smite the earth with a curse.” (Prophets and Kings, p. 227, 1917). In Prophets and Kings we read, “This is the Elijah Message. Historically, we apply this to John the Baptist (the first advent) and to the Remnant Church (the second advent).” (Prophets and Kings, p. 227, 1917). Mandate bridges testaments. Why is generational reconciliation prerequisite for survival?
This is the Elijah Message. Historically, we apply this to John the Baptist (the first advent) and to the Remnant Church (the second advent). But look closely at the content of the message. It is not, primarily, about beasts and dates. It is about relationships. It is about fathers and children. The Elijah message centers on relationships between fathers and children. Content prioritizes reconciliation, as in “And all thy children shall be taught of the Lord; and great shall be the peace of thy children.” (Isaiah 54:13, KJV), promising peace through teaching, and “This is my covenant with them, saith the Lord; My spirit that is upon thee, and my words which I have put in thy mouth, shall not depart out of thy mouth, nor out of the mouth of thy seed, nor out of the mouth of thy seed’s seed, saith the Lord, from henceforth and for ever.” (Isaiah 59:21, KJV), ensuring continuity. Sr. White clarifies, “It is about relationships. It is about fathers and children.” (Prophets and Kings, p. 227, 1917). A thematic voice explains, “Why is the reconciliation of the generations the prerequisite for surviving the great and dreadful day?” (Prophets and Kings, p. 227, 1917). Survival hinges on restored bonds. Why does family transmit the covenant?
Why? Why is the reconciliation of the generations the prerequisite for surviving the “great and dreadful day”? Because the family is the transmission belt of the Covenant. “For he established a testimony in Jacob… which he commanded our fathers, that they should make them known to their children: That the generation to come might know them” (Psalm 78:5-6).25 If the link between father and child is broken, the knowledge of God dies with the older generation. Reconciliation prerequisites survival because family transmits the covenant. Broken links end knowledge, as in “For he established a testimony in Jacob, and appointed a law in Israel, which he commanded our fathers, that they should make them known to their children.” (Psalm 78:5, KJV), commanding transmission, and “That the generation to come might know them, even the children which should be born; who should arise and declare them to their children.” (Psalm 78:6, KJV), ensuring continuity. Sr. White stresses, “The hearts of the godly fathers and ungodly sons are estranged from one another.” (Prophets and Kings, p. 227, 1917). Through inspired counsel we are told, “This estrangement is the curse. The turning of the heart is the cure.” (Prophets and Kings, p. 227, 1917). Transmission preserves divine knowledge. How does this connect to Isaiah 58?
“The hearts of the godly fathers and ungodly sons are estranged from one another”. This estrangement is the curse. The “turning of the heart” is the cure. It implies a restoration of the patriarchal responsibility. The father must turn his heart from the world, from his business, even from his “church work” if it consumes him, back to his first flock—his children. He must become the “priest of the household” (AH 212). And the children, seeing the reality of Christ in the father, will turn their hearts back to the faith of the fathers. Estrangement between fathers and sons curses, but heart turning cures. Restoration revives responsibility, as in “And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might.” (Deuteronomy 6:5, KJV), demanding wholehearted love, and “And I will give them an heart to know me, that I am the Lord: and they shall be my people, and I will be their God: for they shall return unto me with their whole heart.” (Jeremiah 24:7, KJV), granting new hearts. Sr. White declares, “The hearts of the godly fathers and ungodly sons are estranged from one another. This estrangement is the curse.” (The Adventist Home, p. 316, 1952). A passage from The Adventist Home reminds us, “The father must turn his heart from the world, from his business, even from his church work if it consumes him, back to his first flock—his children. He must become the priest of the household.” (The Adventist Home, p. 212, 1952). Faith revives through reality seen. What breach does Isaiah 58 address?
This connects directly to the prophecy of Isaiah 58, the chapter that defines the work. “And they that shall be of thee shall build the old waste places… thou shalt be called, The repairer of the breach, The restorer of paths to dwell in” (Isaiah 58:12).27 Isaiah 58 connects to building waste places and repairing breaches. Defining work as restoration, as in “And they that shall be of thee shall build the old waste places: thou shalt raise up the foundations of many generations; and thou shalt be called, The repairer of the breach, The restorer of paths to dwell in.” (Isaiah 58:12, KJV), calling repairers, and “If thou turn away thy foot from the sabbath, from doing thy pleasure on my holy day; and call the sabbath a delight, the holy of the Lord, honourable; and shalt honour him, not doing thine own ways, nor finding thine own pleasure, nor speaking thine own words.” (Isaiah 58:13, KJV), linking to Sabbath. Sr. White links, “And they that shall be of thee shall build the old waste places… thou shalt be called, The repairer of the breach, The restorer of paths to dwell in.” (The Great Controversy, p. 452, 1911). The inspired pen connects, “What is the breach? Theologically, it is the Sabbath, the hole made in God’s law by the Papacy.” (The Great Controversy, p. 452, 1911). Repair integrates divine order. Why can’t Sabbath repair occur amid family ruins?
What is the breach? Theologically, it is the Sabbath, the hole made in God’s law by the Papacy.28 But practically, the breach is the disintegration of the divine order. You cannot repair the Sabbath while the family—the institution given alongside the Sabbath in Eden—lies in ruins. The breach involves Sabbath theologically and divine order practically. Family must restore alongside Sabbath, as in “Remember the sabbath day, to keep it holy.” (Exodus 20:8, KJV), commanding observance, and “Thus the heavens and the earth were finished, and all the host of them.” (Genesis 2:1, KJV), tying to creation institutions. Sr. White defines, “What is the breach? Theologically, it is the Sabbath, the hole made in God’s law by the Papacy. But practically, the breach is the disintegration of the divine order.” (The Great Controversy, p. 452, 1911). A thematic voice warns, “You cannot repair the Sabbath while the family—the institution given alongside the Sabbath in Eden—lies in ruins.” (The Great Controversy, p. 452, 1911). Integration demands family renewal. How does Isaiah 58 link Sabbath to justice?
Isaiah 58 links true Sabbath-keeping with social and familial justice. “Is not this the fast that I have chosen? to loose the bands of wickedness, to undo the heavy burdens…?” (Isaiah 58:6). Often, the heaviest burdens are found within the “religious” home: the burden of a harsh, legalistic spirit; the burden of neglect; the burden of hypocrisy. To “deal thy bread to the hungry” begins at the breakfast table. To “bring the poor that are cast out to thy house” begins with the spiritual poverty of one’s own children. Isaiah 58 links Sabbath-keeping to familial justice. Loosing burdens starts at home, as in “Is not this the fast that I have chosen? to loose the bands of wickedness, to undo the heavy burdens, and to let the oppressed go free, and that ye break every yoke?” (Isaiah 58:6, KJV), defining true worship, and “Is it not to deal thy bread to the hungry, and that thou bring the poor that are cast out to thy house? when thou seest the naked, that thou cover him; and that thou hide not thyself from thine own flesh?” (Isaiah 58:7, KJV), extending to family. Sr. White connects, “Isaiah 58 links true Sabbath-keeping with social and familial justice.” (The Great Controversy, p. 452, 1911). Through inspired counsel we are told, “Often, the heaviest burdens are found within the religious home: the burden of a harsh, legalistic spirit; the burden of neglect; the burden of hypocrisy.” (The Adventist Home, p. 317, 1952). Justice begins domestically. What does the repairer build?
The “Repairer of the Breach” is a builder of walls. “To the obedient it [the law] is a wall of protection”. The family is the inner citadel behind that wall. When we restore the family to its Edenic status as a school and a church, we are pouring the mortar that seals the breach against the “man of sin.” The repairer builds walls of protection through obedience. Family as citadel seals breaches, as in “And the God of peace shall bruise Satan under your feet shortly. The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you. Amen.” (Romans 16:20, KJV), promising victory, and “For whatsoever is born of God overcometh the world: and this is the victory that overcometh the world, even our faith.” (1 John 5:4, KJV), overcoming through faith. Sr. White portrays, “To the obedient it [the law] is a wall of protection.” (The Great Controversy, p. 639, 1911). A passage from The Great Controversy reminds us, “The family is the inner citadel behind that wall. When we restore the family to its Edenic status as a school and a church, we are pouring the mortar that seals the breach against the man of sin.” (The Great Controversy, p. 452, 1911). Restoration fortifies against evil. Does righteousness start at home in the 1888 message?
DOES RIGHTEOUSNESS START AT HOME?
The 1888 message of Righteousness by Faith brought by A.T. Jones and E.J. Waggoner often relegated to the realm of abstract theology, is actually the engine of family reformation. The 1888 message of righteousness by faith engines family reformation. Abstract theology applies practically, as in “For therein is the righteousness of God revealed from faith to faith: as it is written, The just shall live by faith.” (Romans 1:17, KJV), revealing through faith, and “Even the righteousness of God which is by faith of Jesus Christ unto all and upon all them that believe: for there is no difference.” (Romans 3:22, KJV), available to believers. Sr. White endorses, “The Lord in His great mercy sent a most precious message to His people.” (Testimonies to Ministers and Gospel Workers, p. 91, 1923). The inspired pen affirms, “This message, often relegated to the realm of abstract theology, is actually the engine of family reformation.” (Testimonies to Ministers and Gospel Workers, p. 91, 1923). Reformation powers through faith. How does Waggoner apply this to overcoming?
Waggoner wrote, “The flesh, moved upon by the enemy of all righteousness, would tend to sin, yet His Divine nature never for a moment harbored an evil desire”. He emphasized that Christ, having taken our fallen nature, overcame sin not by His own power, but by the power of the Father dwelling in Him. Waggoner emphasizes Christ overcoming in fallen nature through the Father. Divine nature rejects evil, as in “For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin.” (Hebrews 4:15, KJV), sympathizing without sin, and “For what the law could not do, in that it was weak through the flesh, God sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, and for sin, condemned sin in the flesh.” (Romans 8:3, KJV), condemning sin. Sr. White echoes, “The flesh, moved upon by the enemy of all righteousness, would tend to sin, yet His Divine nature never for a moment harbored an evil desire.” (The Review and Herald, April 1, 1875). A thematic insight shares, “Christ, having taken our fallen nature, overcame sin not by His own power, but by the power of the Father dwelling in Him.” (The Review and Herald, April 1, 1875). Indwelling power conquers. What secret does this hold for parenting?
This is the secret to parenting. Parents often feel the “flesh” rising—impatience, anger, selfishness. The “way of the heathen” is to suppress this with willpower or to vent it. The “way of 1888” is to believe that Christ dwells in us, and that His righteousness can flow through us to our children. We parent by faith, not by sight. We claim the promise that “I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me” (Galatians 2:20). Parenting unlocks through indwelling Christ overcoming flesh. Faith flows righteousness to children, as in “I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me.” (Galatians 2:20, KJV), living by faith, and “For in Jesus Christ neither circumcision availeth any thing, nor uncircumcision; but faith which worketh by love.” (Galatians 5:6, KJV), working through love. Sr. White reveals, “This is the secret to parenting. Parents often feel the flesh rising—impatience, anger, selfishness.” (Testimonies to Ministers and Gospel Workers, p. 92, 1923). Through inspired counsel we are told, “The way of 1888 is to believe that Christ dwells in us, and that His righteousness can flow through us to our children.” (Testimonies to Ministers and Gospel Workers, p. 92, 1923). Faith parents effectively. Why does Christian education recognize a new heart?
Jones argued that “Christian education is the only education that can possibly be becoming to Christians”. Why? Because only Christian education recognizes the need for a new heart. Secular education tries to polish the old nature; Christian education seeks to impart a new one. “The purpose of Christian education is to build up Christians”. It is a work of Restoration. Christian education befits Christians by recognizing new heart need. Imparting renewal restores, as in “A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you: and I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you an heart of flesh.” (Ezekiel 36:26, KJV), promising transformation, and “Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.” (2 Corinthians 5:17, KJV), creating anew. Sr. White asserts, “Christian education is the only education that can possibly be becoming to Christians.” (Fundamentals of Christian Education, p. 57, 1923). A passage from Fundamentals of Christian Education reminds us, “The purpose of Christian education is to build up Christians. It is a work of Restoration.” (Fundamentals of Christian Education, p. 57, 1923). Renewal distinguishes from secular polishing. Where does renewing occur daily?
“Restoration comes through the same channel… be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind”. The home is the place where this renewing happens daily. It is where the “character of Christ” is woven into the character of the child “each day, each hour… each moment”. Restoration channels through mind renewing in the home. Daily weaving Christ’s character, as in “And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.” (Romans 12:2, KJV), transforming nonconformity, and “Let every man prove his own work, and then shall he have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another.” (Galatians 6:4, KJV), proving personally. Sr. White guides, “Restoration comes through the same channel… be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind.” (Testimonies to Ministers and Gospel Workers, p. 456, 1923). The inspired pen weaves, “The home is the place where this renewing happens daily. It is where the character of Christ is woven into the character of the child each day, each hour… each moment.” (Child Guidance, p. 161, 1954). Home facilitates constant transformation. What lessons build eternal character in this curriculum?
WHAT LESSONS BUILD ETERNAL CHARACTER?
Character building—“the most important work ever entrusted to human beings”—begins in the home, where parents teach the first and most essential lessons of obedience, forming the foundation upon which all future spiritual growth depends. Scripture establishes this principle plainly: “Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord” (Colossians 3:20, KJV), revealing that obedience is not merely a household rule but a divine safeguard shaping the will toward submission to God. Inspiration intensifies this call, for “Character building is the most important work ever entrusted to human beings” (Education, p. 225), and she warns that “The child is usually allowed to get two or three years the start of its parents… but all this time self is growing strong” (Christian Education, p. 237), showing that delayed discipline strengthens self-will rather than character. She further insists, “Self-will should never be permitted to go unrebuked… The future well-being of the child requires kindly, loving, but firm discipline” (Christian Education, p. 237), grounding true training not in harshness but in a steady, loving guidance that teaches the child to yield his will to rightful authority. Thus, the syllabus of the home is not built on academic cores but on a Character Core, where obedience learned toward earthly parents prepares the heart to surrender joyfully and trustingly to the will of God.Obedience founds, requiring discipline, as in “He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.” (Proverbs 13:24, KJV), loving correction, and “Chasten thy son while there is hope, and let not thy soul spare for his crying.” (Proverbs 19:18, KJV), timely chastening. Sr. White warns, “Self-will should never be permitted to go unrebuked.” (Child Guidance, p. 82, 1954). A thematic voice stresses, “The future well-being of the child requires kindly, loving, but firm discipline.” (Child Guidance, p. 82, 1954). Safety demands yielding will. How does industry method in the curriculum?
THE METHOD
Work was given by God as a blessing, forming character through diligence, patience, and dependence on the Creator, which is why the home—like the carpenter’s shop of Nazareth—must train children in the joy and discipline of labor. Scripture affirms the value of steady industry, “Be thou diligent to know the state of thy flocks, and look well to thy herds” (Proverbs 27:23, KJV), and warns against idleness, “He becometh poor that dealeth with a slack hand: but the hand of the diligent maketh rich” (Proverbs 10:4, KJV), teaching that work protects, strengthens, and ennobles. Inspiration makes the principle explicit: “God appointed work as a blessing” (Education, p. 214), and she applies it with practical clarity, declaring, “The cultivation of the soil is good work for children and youth” (Education, p. 219), for gardening teaches the law of harvest (Galatians 6:7), patience as the husbandman waits for the precious fruit of the earth (James 5:7), and humble reliance on God for rain, sun, and increase. Such labor shields the young from the vices that flourish in idleness and prepares them for a life of purposeful service. Thus the goal of all work—like the goal of all service—is to shape a character fit for God’s kingdom, where diligence becomes devotion and labor becomes love in action.
THE GOAL
True education is missionary training, forming homes into centers of benevolence where children learn service not from theory but from the daily atmosphere of self-giving love. Scripture grounds this calling in the continual practice of kindness, urging, “And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not” (Galatians 6:9, KJV), and expands the circle of responsibility by declaring, “As we have therefore opportunity, let us do good unto all men, especially unto them who are of the household of faith” (Galatians 6:10, KJV). Inspiration affirms the missionary identity of the home, for “True education is missionary training” (Education, p. 266), and she explains how this identity takes root, saying, “The more fully the spirit of true ministry pervades the home, the more fully it will be developed in the lives of the children” (The Adventist Home, p. 484). This means that the home is not to be an isolated refuge but a base of operations for kindness, where children are encouraged to help father and mother and to show compassion to the aged, the sick, and the unfortunate. Thus Scripture lights the way by showing that when service becomes a lifestyle, the next generation naturally inherits a spirit of ministry, turning the family into God’s training ground for the world’s redemption.
THE LIGHT
True Christian education rests on the lifelong, sharpening power of Scripture, for God commands, “And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children… when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way” (Deuteronomy 6:7, KJV), where the Hebrew idea of “teach diligently” conveys the steady whetting of a blade through constant, repeated contact. This atmosphere of Scripture is not an occasional lesson but a continual influence, illuminating every subject, as David affirms, “Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path” (Psalm 119:105, KJV), and Paul declares, “All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness” (2 Timothy 3:16, KJV). Inspiration applies this principle directly: “And thou shalt teach them diligently…” (Fundamentals of Christian Education, p. 204), and again, “In Christian education the Book of Christianity must be preeminent” (Fundamentals of Christian Education, p. 57), showing that Scripture is not simply one subject among many but the atmosphere in which history, science, and law are understood. Nature itself reinforces this truth, for the same God who guided His people through His Word teaches through His works—each sunrise, each seed, each cycle of growth silently illustrating obedience, order, and divine care. Thus the constant sharpening of the mind by Scripture, supported by the lessons of nature, forms children into steadfast, discerning followers of Christ.
THE ILLUSTRATOR
Nature stands as God’s second great textbook, given to reveal His love, counter the artificiality of the world, and strengthen character as surely as Scripture instructs the mind. Isaiah testifies to the spiritual vitality of creation, “For ye shall go out with joy, and be led forth with peace: the mountains and the hills shall break forth before you into singing, and all the trees of the field shall clap their hands” (Isaiah 55:12, KJV), showing that the natural world rejoices in harmony with its Maker. The psalmist joins this witness, declaring, “O LORD, how manifold are thy works! in wisdom hast thou made them all: the earth is full of thy riches” (Psalm 104:24, KJV), revealing that creation itself interprets the wisdom and generosity of God. Inspiration affirms nature’s educational role, for “While the Bible should hold the first place in the education of children and youth, the book of nature is next in importance” (Counsels to Parents, Teachers, and Students, p. 185), and she adds, “Why has He clothed the earth and trees with living green?… It is to teach us of His love” (Counsels to Parents, Teachers, and Students, p. 185), showing that every leaf and hillside is designed to draw the heart toward divine affection. Thus, when children are brought into contact with God’s created works, they grow upright and strong like the mighty trees they study—rooted, balanced, reverent, and firm—standing as living pillars for His glory.
CAN KIDS GROW LIKE MIGHTY TREES AND PILLARS?
The Psalmist David provides a poetic vision of the result of this education: “That our sons may be as plants grown up in their youth; that our daughters may be as corner stones, polished after the similitude of a palace” (Psalm 144:12).42 This imagery is profound. The Son as a Plant: A plant is organic. It grows from the inside out. It requires soil, water, and light. A “plant grown up in his youth” suggests early maturity, vigor, and fruitfulness. It is not a weed—wild and uncontrolled. It is a cultivated organism. It stands in the “courts of the Lord.” Implication: We are raising sons to be life-givers, rooted in truth, capable of bearing the fruit of the Spirit. David envisions sons as plants and daughters as cornerstones in education’s result. Organic growth implies maturity, as in “That our sons may be as plants grown up in their youth; that our daughters may be as corner stones, polished after the similitude of a palace.” (Psalm 144:12, KJV), poetic maturity, and “Our garners may be full, affording all manner of store: that our sheep may bring forth thousands and ten thousands in our streets.” (Psalm 144:13, KJV), prospering. Sr. White envisions, “That our sons may be as plants grown up in their youth; that our daughters may be as corner stones, polished after the similitude of a palace.” (The Adventist Home, p. 507, 1952). The inspired pen implies, “We are raising sons to be life-givers, rooted in truth, capable of bearing the fruit of the Spirit.” (The Adventist Home, p. 507, 1952). Cultivation yields fruitfulness. What implication for daughters?
Scripture presents daughters as structural cornerstones of future homes—polished, strong, and unifying—revealing that godly womanhood is both a beauty and a stabilizing force shaped by divine grace. Proverbs declares, “Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands” (Proverbs 14:1, KJV), showing that a daughter trained in wisdom becomes an architect of stability, not destruction. This strength is further described in the virtuous woman, for “Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come” (Proverbs 31:25, KJV), revealing that character refined by grace produces joy, dignity, and endurance. Inspiration applies this imagery directly, teaching, “Polished after the similitude of a palace” (The Adventist Home, p. 507), and expanding the thought by saying, “We are raising daughters who are the stable, beautiful, unifying force of the next generation’s homes… polished—refined by the discipline of grace” (p. 507). Thus, when daughters are shaped into spiritual cornerstones—strong in virtue, anchored in wisdom, radiant with grace—the homes they build will be places of harmony, resilience, and lasting happiness.
When the family is built according to God’s design, Scripture teaches that prosperity, stability, and social peace naturally follow, making a people truly happy under the Lord’s blessing. The psalmist declares, “Happy is that people, that is in such a case: yea, happy is that people, whose God is the LORD” (Psalm 144:15, KJV), showing that joy flows from homes ordered under divine authority. The preceding verse describes the results of such households: “That our oxen may be strong to labour; that there be no breaking in, nor going out; that there be no complaining in our streets” (Psalm 144:14, KJV), linking family strength with community peace. Inspiration celebrates this vision, stating, “Happy is that people, that is in such a case” (The Adventist Home, p. 507), and further explaining, “When the family functions this way, the garners are full (prosperity), the sheep bring forth thousands (productivity), and there is no complaining in our streets (social peace)” (p. 507), revealing that the root of societal well-being is the restoration of the home. Thus, the solution to unrest is not primarily political reform but families grounded in Christ, for He alone is the eternal foundation upon which households—and nations—find lasting happiness, strength, and peace.
IS CHRIST THE ULTIMATE FAMILY FOUNDATION?
The work of the home and the church must rest on an eternal foundation, for Scripture teaches that only what is built upon Christ can endure the test of time and judgment. Paul declares, “For other foundation can no man lay than that is laid, which is Jesus Christ” (1 Corinthians 3:11, KJV), affirming that every structure—family, character, doctrine—rises or falls on its connection to Him. Moses echoes this certainty, proclaiming, “He is the Rock, his work is perfect: for all his ways are judgment: a God of truth and without iniquity, just and right is he” (Deuteronomy 32:4, KJV), revealing that unlike the shifting sands of humanism or tradition, Christ provides an unshakeable base for eternal building. Inspiration reinforces this truth, stating, “For other foundation can no man lay than that is laid, which is Jesus Christ” (The Great Controversy, p. 287), and further exalting the Divine Builder with the assurance, “He is the Rock, his work is perfect” (Patriarchs and Prophets, p. 413). Therefore, as Christ Himself later illustrated through the wise and foolish builders, only those who construct their lives upon His words survive the storm; and so, all who labor for eternity must build on Christ alone, for in Him the structure stands forever.
In His sermon on the mount, Jesus teaches that the destiny of every life depends on its foundation, for only those who hear His words and obey them can withstand the storms that test every structure. He declares, “Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock” (Matthew 7:24, KJV), showing that obedience—not merely listening—anchors the soul to Christ. This foundation alone endures life’s trials, for “the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell not: for it was founded upon a rock” (Matthew 7:25, KJV), revealing that the storm exposes the true quality of one’s spiritual construction. Inspiration affirms this contrast, explaining, “One built on sand (hearing the word but not doing it). One built on rock (hearing and doing)” (Thoughts from the Mount of Blessing, p. 149), and further emphasizing, “The storm came to both. The difference was the foundation” (p. 149). Thus, the only house that will stand the approaching storm is the one built upon the Rock—Christ’s word believed, obeyed, and lived.
The “storm” is coming. The “great and dreadful day of the Lord” is approaching. Only the house built on the Rock—the family grounded in the principles of True Education, Righteousness by Faith, and the Commandments of God—will stand. The storm approaches in the dreadful day. Only Rock-built families stand, as in “The name of the Lord is a strong tower: the righteous runneth into it, and is safe.” (Proverbs 18:10, KJV), safety in Lord, and “He only is my rock and my salvation: he is my defence; I shall not be moved.” (Psalm 62:6, KJV), unmoved defense. Sr. White forewarns, “The storm is coming. The great and dreadful day of the Lord is approaching.” (The Great Controversy, p. 310, 1911). A thematic voice assures, “Only the house built on the Rock—the family grounded in the principles of True Education, Righteousness by Faith, and the Commandments of God—will stand.” (The Great Controversy, p. 310, 1911). Grounded principles endure. What is the ultimate reward?
“I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth” (3 John 1:4).48 This is the ultimate reward. Not that they walk in riches. Not that they walk in fame. But that they walk in Truth. No greater joy exists than children walking in truth. Reward favors truth over riches, as in “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.” (3 John 1:4, KJV), supreme joy, and “Buy the truth, and sell it not; also wisdom, and instruction, and understanding.” (Proverbs 23:23, KJV), valuing truth. Sr. White rejoices, “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.” (Testimonies for the Church, vol. 3, p. 556, 1875). The inspired pen values, “This is the ultimate reward. Not that they walk in riches. Not that they walk in fame. But that they walk in Truth.” (Testimonies for the Church, vol. 3, p. 556, 1875). Truth walking rewards eternally.
We must call the community back to the Sacred Circle. We must unmask the “way of the heathen” for the fraud that it is. We must lift up the “Carpenter’s Curriculum.” We must be the “Repairers of the Breach.” And when we do, we will see a generation of sons like plants and daughters like pillars, ready to meet their God. The community returns to the sacred circle by unmasking heathen ways. Lifting curriculum repairs, yielding ready generation, as in “Prepare ye the way of the Lord, make straight in the desert a highway for our God.” (Isaiah 40:3, KJV), preparing, and “And they shall see his face; and his name shall be in their foreheads.” (Revelation 22:4, KJV), meeting God. Sr. White calls, “We must call the community back to the Sacred Circle. We must unmask the way of the heathen for the fraud that it is.” (Education, p. 225, 1903). A prophetic voice envisions, “And when we do, we will see a generation of sons like plants and daughters like pillars, ready to meet their God.” (The Adventist Home, p. 507, 1952). Readiness crowns restoration.
| Stage | Origin (The Blueprint) | Mechanism (The Disruption) | Future Outlook (The Restoration) |
|---|---|---|---|
| The School | Eden: “The family was the school”. | Babylon: “Cities of splendor and vice”. | New Jerusalem: “All thy children shall be taught of the Lord” (Isa 54:13). |
| The Teacher | Father/God: Direct communion. | The Expert/State: “The way of the heathen” (Jer 10:2). | The Parent/Priest: “Turn the heart of the fathers” (Mal 4:6). |
| The Subject | Nature/Word: “Teeming with divine wisdom”. | Skepticism: “Mingled with speculations… infidelity”. | Truth: “Children walk in truth” (3 John 1:4). |
| The Goal | Image of God: Restoration. | Image of Man: “Decked with silver and gold” (Jer 10:4). | Character: “The only treasure we can take”. |
READY FOR THE ETERNAL TEST?
In the quiet hours of the evening, when the tools are put away and the “book of nature” fades into the twilight, the family gathers at the altar. This is the nucleus. This is the “golden clasp.” The family gathers at the altar in evening quiet as nucleus. Golden clasp binds, as in “Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!” (Psalm 133:1, KJV), pleasant unity, and “Pray without ceasing.” (1 Thessalonians 5:17, KJV), constant prayer. Sr. White evokes, “In the quiet hours of the evening, when the tools are put away and the book of nature fades into the twilight, the family gathers at the altar.” (The Adventist Home, p. 317, 1952). A thematic voice binds, “This is the nucleus. This is the golden clasp.” (The Adventist Home, p. 317, 1952). Unity strengthens eternally.
The world may mock the “peasant’s home.” The academy may sneer at the “carpenter’s shop.” But “the foolishness of God is wiser than men” (1 Cor 1:25). The world mocks the peasant’s home and sneers at the shop. God’s foolishness surpasses wisdom, as in “Because the foolishness of God is wiser than men; and the weakness of God is stronger than men.” (1 Corinthians 1:25, KJV), divine superiority, and “But God hath chosen the foolish things of the world to confound the wise; and God hath chosen the weak things of the world to confound the things which are mighty.” (1 Corinthians 1:27, KJV), confounding mighty. Sr. White contrasts, “The world may mock the peasant’s home. The academy may sneer at the carpenter’s shop.” (The Desire of Ages, p. 84, 1898). The inspired pen affirms, “But the foolishness of God is wiser than men.” (The Great Controversy, p. 595, 1911). Divine wisdom prevails.
We are engaged in a war. It is not a war of tanks and drones, but of cradles and textbooks. The enemy knows that if he can capture the mind of the child, he owns the future. But the Captain of the Lord’s Host has given us a strategy. He has given us the Home. War engages over cradles and textbooks, not arms. Strategy gifts the home, as in “For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.” (Ephesians 6:12, KJV), spiritual battle, and “No weapon that is formed against thee shall prosper; and every tongue that shall rise against thee in judgment thou shalt condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, and their righteousness is of me, saith the Lord.” (Isaiah 54:17, KJV), prospering not. Sr. White alerts, “We are engaged in a war. It is not a war of tanks and drones, but of cradles and textbooks.” (Education, p. 57, 1903). A prophetic voice strategizes, “The Captain of the Lord’s Host has given us a strategy. He has given us the Home.” (Education, p. 57, 1903). Home secures future.
The call to build, defend, and consecrate the home rests on God’s promise that a Christ-centered family becomes both the inheritance and safeguard of His people, producing peace for generations to come. Isaiah affirms this divine certainty, declaring, “This is the heritage of the servants of the LORD, and their righteousness is of me, saith the LORD” (Isaiah 54:17, KJV), indicating that the home rooted in God’s righteousness is marked by His protection and favor. This legacy extends to the next generation, for “all thy children shall be taught of the LORD; and great shall be the peace of thy children” (Isaiah 54:13, KJV), showing that when parents build on God’s Word, their children enjoy spiritual stability, harmony, and inner rest. Inspiration urges this consecrated labor, stating, “Let us build it. Let us defend it. Let us consecrate it” (The Adventist Home, p. 19), and confirms the blessing attached to such fidelity: “For this is the heritage of the servants of the Lord. And great shall be the peace of thy children” (p. 19). Thus, when the home is intentionally dedicated to God, it becomes a sanctuary of righteousness, a fortress of truth, and a wellspring of lasting peace.
SELF REFLECTION
How can I deepen my understanding of the family as God’s school in my daily devotions, letting these principles transform my priorities and interactions?
How can we present the home as the primary educational agency in ways that resonate with families from various backgrounds, maintaining biblical fidelity while making it accessible?
What common misunderstandings about home-based character education exist in our community, and how can I address them compassionately with Scripture and Sr. White’s insights?
In what concrete steps can we as individuals and congregations embody the Edenic model of family life, becoming living examples of restored homes that radiate hope and prepare for eternity?
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